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How To Be A Good Cam Girl!

How To Be A Good Cam Girl!

That’s a question I get asked a lot! Lots of girls think it’s easy, it’s just a matter of being hot. Well, personally, I like girls with a great ass, a slim waist and a pretty smile, who’s intelligent and witty. But that’s just me. There are different flavors for different tastes. So it’s definitely not about appearance, it’s about PERSONALITY!

It can be hard for a lot of girls to be in front of a camera even if it’s only a webcam. Here are a few tips to help improve your online persona/presence:

Be friendly:

Yeah I know seems obvious, but you would be surprised by certain girls that are not really. Say “hi” to everybody that comes in your room. Don’t ignore anybody, even if you’re in the middle of a conversation with someone else.

Be flirty:

Overall, guys like to be teased right? Smile, flirt, be cute…c’mon on girls you know the tricks!

Stay focused:

Avoid listening to music super loud, or watching TV or playing video games (unless that’s part of your hook). Seriously, people that come to your room are expecting you to be “ready” for them. If you look busy or worse bored, they might leave right away.

Stop typing:

This one is VERY important. If you’re constantly typing your messages, it looks boring. You have a microphone. Use it. Typing is ok if certain viewer complains that they are having audio issues. But don’t get into a habit of typing. Talk to them, use your sexy voice. You know the power of the voice girls, use it!

Dress up:

It’s like going out on a date. A little sexy outfit, sexy underwear, nice shoes, a little makeup maybe…don’t look like you just woke up! You know how easy it is to turn men on with clothes. School girl, mistress, latex…whatever you like.

DON’T take off your clothes:

Not right away anyway. Make them WANT to see what’s hiding underneath the clothes! No matter what people say, men like clothes. It’s all about imagination and fantasy. Give them what they want right away and the fantasy is over.


Get some fun toys. Different shapes, different colors…be creative. I know some of you have glass toys, funny shape toys, HUGE toys! It will make things more fun for everyone!

Kick, don’t ban:

Some people are simply weirdos. I know they can give you a hard time sometimes, verbally. You can ignore them at first. That’s the smartest thing to do. But you can also give them a nice warning. Stay polite and nice. They’re like kids. If you don’t respond and if you don’t play their game it’s not fun anymore and they will leave. After a warning, you can ban them. Nobody wants you to be harassed by some weirdos. Let the site admins know too, because they certainly wont want them on the site!

Deal or no deal:

You have a profile and people can see what you like, what you don’t, what you do, what you don’t but they can still ask. Be honest. Tell them what you WILL do and what you WONT do in private. Honesty always pays. Don’t lie because they will be disappointed and give you a bad rate. You’re making a “deal”. It’s totally ok to say no.

HD Webcam:

One thing that you absolutely want to have it’s High Definition quality. Nowadays you can find a full 1080p HD webcam for less than $100 and some of them are less than $70, which is nothing compared to what it will bring to your wallet.

Have fun:

Flirt, tease, talk a little dirty, play, HAVE FUN! You want guys to have a good time with you and come back. So have your best show every time, at the end they will give the rankings you deserve.

Ask around:

Ask your fellow cam girls. What works for them might not work for you but it might help you with ideas. Girls that follow all this can’t stay out of private. And you know what that means…MONEY!!!

Have any more tips? Please share them with us!

Slayton Cole

@binafofina is the most AMAZING woman I have ever known & I am truly blessed to have her in my life. She is my heart. I love her with every fiber of my being. And some day, she will be eating French toast breakfast in bed while sitting on my face, watching Sports Center, God willing… Yeah…

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